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Navigating Intimacy: The Power of Agreements in Queer & Lesbian Relationships queer tantra Sep 22, 2023

What has a relationship work? Why do some relationships last and others don’t? 

If you’re anything like me, you’ve pondered these questions before. Sometimes we think about it when we are starting a new relationship and often, we think about it acutely when a relationship...

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Understanding the Three Entities in Your Relationship queer tantra Sep 14, 2023

Growing up in this world can be challenging. Not only do we inherit a binary definition of gender, but the binary ‘this or that’ or ‘two opposites’ approach can inhabit other areas of life as well. One of them is relationships.

The model of relationship that I inherited

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3 Pillars of Power: The Sacred Trio of Consent, Respect, and Reverence queer tantra Sep 08, 2023

What makes sex tantric? Can we just show up and do the deed and it’s done? How do we incorporate connection and intimacy into our busy lives anyway?

There are three foundational pillars that must be present for sex to transform from mere mechanics to feeling deeply connected and ultimately,...

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Awaken Your Energetic Body: Embrace Movement for Queer Intimacy queer tantra Aug 19, 2023

Have you ever felt stuck in your body, like you want to express yourself but you can’t seem to move? Sometimes we can feel paralysed, trapped in our own physical vessels. Or, we develop habits of not moving our bodies.

Think of movement as a language. When we are in the womb, we begin to...

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Feeling shut down? How to reopen. queer tantra Aug 11, 2023

In the realm of intimate relationships, the journey isn't always smooth sailing. For queer people, the challenges of reopening yourself after becoming shutdown can be particularly nuanced and sensitive. This article delves into the intricacies of rediscovering intimacy, drawing from the wisdom of...

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Beyond the Physical: Can Intimacy be Spiritual? queer tantra Jul 27, 2023

In the deep and diverse tapestry of human existence, the journey to embrace one's authentic self can be a profound and transformative experience. For queer people, this path can be particularly powerful, as it intertwines gender, sexuality, and the desire to experience being truly connected.

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Beyond Shame: Liberating our Queer Selves empowerment lgbtqia+ queer queer tantra relationships Jul 22, 2023

In the pursuit of living our best lives, shedding the weight of shame can be a transformative and empowering journey. For queer people, especially those navigating queer/lesbian bed death, releasing shame around sexuality and identity is a vital step towards embracing true liberation. In this...

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Reigniting the Flame: Unveiling the Magic of Tantra to Counter Queer/Lesbian Bed lgbtqia+ queer queer tantra relationships Jul 15, 2023

Today, let's delve into a topic that resonates with many long-term queer partnerships: queer/lesbian bed death. Yes, it's a phenomenon that can cast a shadow over the intimate connection we crave. But it doesn’t have to be this way. 

Enter tantra, a transformative practice that offers...

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A Crush: What is it Good For? empowerment energy lgbtqia+ queer tantra relationships Jun 30, 2023

Your eyes meet across the room. They give you a little nod of acknowledgment. You check behind you. Was that to me? Your heart flutters and you go weak at the knees…

Having a crush. Someone you fancy. There are many ways to describe that giddy feeling of initial attraction to someone....

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Withholding Sex empowerment lgbtqia+ queer queer tantra relationships Jun 22, 2023

Important note:

The conversation that follows must be had and understood within a context of consent. Each of us has the right to give or withdraw consent at ANY time under ANY circumstances. You can withdraw consent at any anytime without reason AND for any reason. Saying no is a human right....

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Self-Cultivation for Queer Bodies empowerment lgbtqia+ queer queer tantra relationships trans Jun 02, 2023

Every moment you invest in yourself is filling your cup. When you pour goodness and kindness into yourself you are juicing up your soul. It’s like priming the soil to receive all of the universe’s abundance that is ready and waiting for you.

To cultivate the self is to grow, to...

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Divine Androgyny & the Power of Integration empowerment energy gender queer queer tantra yoga May 26, 2023

Androgyny is the combination of masculine and feminine characteristics into an ambiguous form. And yet some people define androgyny as the state of being neither specifically feminine or masculine. So which is it? 

One of the things I love about androgyny is that it leaves people with...

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