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Reclaim Your Sexuality: Are You an Introvert or Extrovert? queer tantra Dec 08, 2023

Working closely with over 100 first-time Drag Kings as the King Coach has given me a rich and deeper understanding of gender, sexuality and performance. Most recently, I’ve come across an interesting discovery about human sexuality.

Emma* knew there was something to discover about...

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Navigating Diversity in Love: Polyamory and Monogamy in LGBTQIA+ Relationships queer tantra Dec 01, 2023

When I look back at my life, I have centered myself in and around relationship. Intimate relationships have been where I’ve learned some of life’s hardest lessons and grown with velocity. 

Truth bomb: I’ve been in relationship either with one partner or multiple partners in...

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Mindful Intimacy: Meditative Practices for Queer Couples queer tantra Nov 04, 2023

In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it's easy for us to find ourselves feeling disconnected, especially when navigating challenges like lesbian bed death. But what if I told you that there's a way to foster a deeper connection without the pressure of traditional sexual expectations? That's...

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Breakups Suck. Always. A Spiritual Guide to Healing queer tantra Oct 27, 2023

Breakups – they're like that stubborn bandaid you've had on for way too long. Taking it off slowly can be excruciating, like feeling every tiny hair being plucked from your skin. The quick rip approach still hurts, but it gets done and the pain is short-term and disappears sooner. Sometimes...

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Compelling Promises: Shaping the Future of Your Relationship queer tantra Oct 06, 2023

In the world of love and partnerships, promises are like the seeds we plant for our shared future. They hold the potential to shape the course of our journey together. But, as we all know, promises are delicate and need careful tending, especially in queer relationships where the dynamics might...

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The 3 Stages of Relationship: Are you Questioning Their Commitment? queer tantra Sep 29, 2023

It’s been a while now since you first got together and somewhere along the line, the question comes up - is this a relationship? We have cute ways of saying this to each other. “Are we girlfriends?” Or one of you gets brave and pops the question, “Will you be my...

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Navigating Intimacy: The Power of Agreements in Queer & Lesbian Relationships queer tantra Sep 22, 2023

What has a relationship work? Why do some relationships last and others don’t? 

If you’re anything like me, you’ve pondered these questions before. Sometimes we think about it when we are starting a new relationship and often, we think about it acutely when a relationship...

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Understanding the Three Entities in Your Relationship queer tantra Sep 14, 2023

Growing up in this world can be challenging. Not only do we inherit a binary definition of gender, but the binary ‘this or that’ or ‘two opposites’ approach can inhabit other areas of life as well. One of them is relationships.

The model of relationship that I inherited

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3 Pillars of Power: The Sacred Trio of Consent, Respect, and Reverence queer tantra Sep 08, 2023

What makes sex tantric? Can we just show up and do the deed and it’s done? How do we incorporate connection and intimacy into our busy lives anyway?

There are three foundational pillars that must be present for sex to transform from mere mechanics to feeling deeply connected and ultimately,...

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Awaken Your Energetic Body: Embrace Movement for Queer Intimacy queer tantra Aug 19, 2023

Have you ever felt stuck in your body, like you want to express yourself but you can’t seem to move? Sometimes we can feel paralysed, trapped in our own physical vessels. Or, we develop habits of not moving our bodies.

Think of movement as a language. When we are in the womb, we begin to...

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Feeling shut down? How to reopen. queer tantra Aug 11, 2023

In the realm of intimate relationships, the journey isn't always smooth sailing. For queer people, the challenges of reopening yourself after becoming shutdown can be particularly nuanced and sensitive. This article delves into the intricacies of rediscovering intimacy, drawing from the wisdom of...

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Beyond the Physical: Can Intimacy be Spiritual? queer tantra Jul 27, 2023

In the deep and diverse tapestry of human existence, the journey to embrace one's authentic self can be a profound and transformative experience. For queer people, this path can be particularly powerful, as it intertwines gender, sexuality, and the desire to experience being truly connected.

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