So, you’ve done your debut Drag King performance— and maybe you’re thinking, “What’s next? How do I actually get better at this Drag King thing?”

I see you, handsome. You’re passionate, creative, and wildly curious. But I also know how easy it is to feel stuck after that first big moment on stage. ...

So… you’ve seen a Drag King or two and something stirred inside you. Maybe it was at Queers of Joy, maybe on Instagram. Maybe you couldn’t even name it at the time, but a part of you whispered: I want to do that.

And then maybe another voice came in, louder, saying:

“But I’ve never performed befor...

(Yup, that's me ☝️Dario di Bello singing Do It LIke A Dude)

So... someone’s asked you to sing live as your Drag King.

Your stomach flips. Your brain goes: "Me? Actually sing?" Maybe you’ve been lip syncing for a while. Maybe you’re brand new to this world. Maybe someone once told you you should ne...

A gentle guide to crafting a persona that’s rooted in truth, swagger, and your wild imagination.

By Danica Lani, The King Coach

So… where did he come from?

If you’re just starting out in the world of Drag Kinging, first of all—welcome.

You belong here.

Maybe you’ve been daydreaming about your D...

So, you've completed Kings of Joy Gold Stars, maybe you’ve even been an All-Star, and your Drag King persona is beginning to take shape. You're feeling the creative spark flicker—maybe even burn—and you're toying with ideas for your first solo routine or stepping onto new stages beyond Kings of Joy....

Feeling stuck or slow in your Drag King journey? Here’s why rest, pause, and creative wintering are vital parts of becoming the artist you’re meant to be.

Welcome to the rhythm of your creative life, King.

There’s a lie we’ve been sold in the world of art and performance—that we must always be pro...

New to Drag Kinging? Discover how Jo found her confidence by switching from a character to a King. Learn how finding the right persona can change everything.

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From Character to King: How Jo Found Her Drag Persona

When Jo first joined Kings of Joy, she was excited but unsure. Like many queer pe...

For the queer human who’s drawn to Drag Kinging—but still doesn’t think of themselves as a performer.

You’re not the only one asking this question.

“I love Drag Kings… but I’m not a performer.”

“I have no rhythm.”

“I get nervous even speaking in a group.”

“I’m terrified I’ll forget the choreogr...

[Rex McCooch, PI]

Musicality isn’t just about keeping in time with the beat—it’s about feeling the music, understanding its dynamics, and using movement, expression, and timing to amplify your performance. It’s the difference between a good performance and one that stays in the audience’s minds lon...

Being a Drag King is exhilarating—until you’re peeling off layers of tape, scrubbing at stubborn makeup, or realising your costume smells like a gym bag because you haven’t had time to wash it. When drag becomes a drag, it’s usually because the little things start piling up—sweaty costumes, dry skin...

As Drag Kings, we play with masculinity, but how we do that matters. Are we poking fun at something specific (parody) or critiquing a bigger idea (satire)?

Understanding the difference between parody and satire sharpens your act, strengthens your message, and makes your performance land exactly how...

When you step into the world of Drag Kinging, it’s natural to wonder—what sets a Drag King apart from male impersonation? It’s a question I’ve heard often, and I’m glad you’re asking it, because understanding the difference is key to creating a persona that feels authentic, powerful, and unapologeti...