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Kings Rise: Celebrating 3 Years of Queer Joy with a Spectacular Debut Performance! kings of joy Nov 28, 2023

[L to R: Ben D. Dick, Terra Cockta, Rex Coochie, in throne: Brad Arm Pitt.]

This week, Queers of Joy celebrates their 3rd birthday. What started out as a new performance night showcasing trans and gender-diverse artists has developed into a gathering of community and a celebration of trans and...

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Redefining Royalty: The Journey of The King Coach, Danica Lani kings of joy Nov 23, 2023

Chris aka Chase Cocks
I think it might be time to hear from The King Coach, Daddy Joy, my wife, Danica Lani. Dario, where are you?

Danica Lani  0:16  
My darling, my love. Where have you been in my life? **kiss** Give it up for Chase Cocks, everyone. Lives up to his name, that's all...

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Joyful Resistance: How Action Can Make a Tangible Difference block 13 kings of joy making a difference Nov 14, 2023

[Dandy Rawhole. Photo credit: Sarah Malone]

In times of humanitarian crisis and in the face of war, one can feel utterly helpless. It’s easy to spiral down. 

Having been an activist for the majority of my life (close to 40 years), starting with reading David Suzuki at age 8 and being...

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Kings of Joy Podcast interview with Jim Junkie: Vision Boards, Dolphins & Performative Masculinity kings of joy podcast Nov 07, 2023

Jim Junkie  0:00  
Alright, listen up legends!

Danica Lani  0:04  
Jim is in the house. Jim is in the Bandstand.

Jim Junkie  0:10  
Ready to work out.

Danica Lani  0:12  
Hello and welcome to the Kings of Joy Podcast Show Live at the...

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Mindful Intimacy: Meditative Practices for Queer Couples queer tantra Nov 04, 2023

In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it's easy for us to find ourselves feeling disconnected, especially when navigating challenges like lesbian bed death. But what if I told you that there's a way to foster a deeper connection without the pressure of traditional sexual expectations? That's...

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Kings of Joy Podcast interview with Po Trancey - Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energy kings of joy podcast Oct 31, 2023

Danica Lani  0:01  
Hello and welcome. My name is Danica Lani. And we are here Live at the Bandstand by Qtopia, Sydney. For our very first, live Kings of Joe - Kings of Joe, we've got no Kings of Joe! I've heard of him. Kings of Joe. For our very first Kings of Joy, podcast show....

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Breakups Suck. Always. A Spiritual Guide to Healing queer tantra Oct 27, 2023

Breakups – they're like that stubborn bandaid you've had on for way too long. Taking it off slowly can be excruciating, like feeling every tiny hair being plucked from your skin. The quick rip approach still hurts, but it gets done and the pain is short-term and disappears sooner. Sometimes...

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Kings of Joy Podcast interview with Ragnor the Ravishing: Breaking Viking Normative Stereotypes kings of joy podcast Oct 26, 2023

Danica Lani  0:00  

Please welcome to the stage, our one and only Viking of the night... and of the community. Ragnor the Ravishing! Make yourself at home. 

Danica Lani  0:30  

So everyone, welcome to the Kings of Joy podcast Show Live at the Bandstand by...

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Stories of Self-Discovery: Meet the Stars of 'The Kings of Joy Podcast Show Live at the Bandstand'! drag king kings of joy Oct 17, 2023

Are you ready to dive into a world of self-expression, empowerment, and unapologetic authenticity? Well, get ready because we've got a spectacular treat coming your way! The stage is set, and the spotlight is ready to shine on an extraordinary event that's bound to make your heart swell with...

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Queers of Joy's Biggest Surprise Yet: Two Kings of Joy Groups Debut! kings of joy queers of joy Oct 11, 2023

[Cream L to R: Drew Dickdale, Bazza Bagz, Ragnor the Ravishing, Golden Boy Brad, Luca Me. Jalebi Baby L to R: Lalo Land, Craig Beat, Aashiq Singh, Dusty Evans.]

Hey there, handsome,

This week, the Kings of Joy have some exciting news that's bound to set your hearts aflutter and your spirits...

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Compelling Promises: Shaping the Future of Your Relationship queer tantra Oct 06, 2023

In the world of love and partnerships, promises are like the seeds we plant for our shared future. They hold the potential to shape the course of our journey together. But, as we all know, promises are delicate and need careful tending, especially in queer relationships where the dynamics might...

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Body Confidence: How to Masc Up your Curves drag king kings of joy Oct 06, 2023

Humans have curves. I’ve never met anyone who is completely angular or straight up and down. Bodies have curves. 

Having coached 89 and currently on our way to 100 first-time Drag Kings, I’ve seen all kinds of body shapes - each one powerfully unique and beautiful. It is true...

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