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Are you ready to dive into a world of self-expression, empowerment, and unapologetic authenticity? Well, get ready because we've got a spectacular treat coming your way! The stage is set, and the spotlight is ready to shine on an extraordinary event that's bound to make your heart swell with pride a...
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This week, the Kings of Joy have some exciting news that's bound to set your hearts aflutter and your spirits soarin...
In the world of love and partnerships, promises are like the seeds we plant for our shared future. They hold the potential to shape the course of our journey together. But, as we all know, promises are delicate and need careful tending, especially in queer relationships where the dynamics might d...
Humans have curves. Iāve never met anyone who is completely angular or straight up and down. Bodies have curves.Ā
Having coached 89 and currently on our way to 100 first-time Drag Kings, Iāve seen all kinds of body shapes - each one powerfully unique and beautiful. It is true that some of us are...
Itās been a while now since you first got together and somewhere along the line, the question comes up - is this a relationship? We have cute ways of saying this to each other. āAre we girlfriends?ā Or one of you gets brave and pops the question, āWill you be my girlfriend?āĀ Other times we speak wi...
Are you ready to embark on an incredible journey of self-discovery, self-expression, and empowerment? Look no further, because the Kings of Joy All Stars are back, and they're ready to inspire you to live your best life!
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Our All Stars program is a glittering constell...
What has a relationship work? Why do some relationships last and others donāt?Ā
If youāre anything like me, youāve pondered these questions before. Sometimes we think about it when we are starting a new relationship and often, we think about it acutely when a relationship ends - What went wrong in ...
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Hello and welcome. My name is Danica Lani. I'm known as the King Coach and you're listening to the Kings of Joy podcast. I am joined today with an incredible performer who I cannot wait to introduce you to... Casual Harry all the way from Cape Town, South Africa. Welcome Casual, ...
Why are some people able to shoot off straight after Kings of Joy Gold Stars and go solo while others are not sure what to do next or even where to start?
Iām Danica Lani, the King Coach and Iāve proudly mentored 89 first-time Drag Kings through Kings of Joy since December 2020.
I want to share...
Growing up in this world can be challenging. Not only do we inherit a binary definition of gender, but the binary āthis or thatā or ātwo oppositesā approach can inhabit other areas of life as well. One of them is relationships.
The model of relationship that I inherited
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Hey there friend. Iāve got some electrifying news that's about to light up your world. š Get ready to unleash your inner King because the one and only Casual Harry, the Cape Town-based drag king and boylesque sensation, is here to take you on a journey like no other.Ā
Meet Casual Harry: The Drag...
What makes sex tantric? Can we just show up and do the deed and itās done? How do we incorporate connection and intimacy into our busy lives anyway?
There are three foundational pillars that must be present for sex to transform from mere mechanics to feeling deeply connected and ultimately, into a ...
