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Are you ready to lean into your masc?

drag king kings of joy the king coach Aug 15, 2023

[From top L-R: Bobs Bulges, Max Mews the Ultimate Cat Daddy, Martin Van Tasmal, Randy Rootrat, Dario di Bello, Chase Cocks, Hank, Dumblewhore, Cyber Prince]

Welcome to the Kings of Joy community, a safe and empowering space where humans of all genders come together to explore the captivating world of Drag King culture. As The King Coach, my mission is simple: I don't care what gender you were assigned at birth, I don't care who you sleep with – all I want to know is if you're ready to lean into your masculine and embrace the power of your Drag King persona. 

So, let's embark on this transformative journey together and discover the incredible benefits of crafting a masculine persona larger than your everyday self.

1. Embrace Your True Identity:

At Kings of Joy, we celebrate authenticity and encourage you to explore the true essence of your identity. Your Drag King persona is a chance to showcase your unique self, free from societal expectations and limitations. No matter what gender you were assigned at birth, your Drag King persona is a canvas for you to express the beauty and strength of your masculinity.

2. A Safe Space for Self-Discovery:

We understand that self-discovery can be a vulnerable process, especially for those new to Drag King performance. But rest assured, Kings of Joy is a nurturing community that fosters support, acceptance, and respect for all its members. Here, you can lean into your masculine with confidence, knowing that you are embraced for being your authentic self.

3. Breaking Free from Conformity:

By embracing your masculine persona, you liberate yourself from the confines of conformity. Your everyday self may be subject to societal norms and expectations, but as a Drag King, you have the power to break free from those limitations. Your persona allows you to explore and celebrate masculinity on your own terms.

4. Confidence On and Off Stage:

Crafting a larger-than-life Drag King persona empowers you to channel newfound confidence both on and off the stage. As your persona grows, so does your self-assurance, enabling you to tackle challenges in your everyday life with resilience and charisma.

5. Challenging Stereotypes:

Drag King culture is an art form that challenges stereotypes and pushes boundaries. Your masculine persona defies societal norms and contributes to the ongoing movement towards a more inclusive and diverse world.

6. Empowering Others:

By embracing your masculine persona, you inspire others to explore their own gender expression and identity. Your journey serves as a beacon of empowerment for those who may be hesitant to step into their true selves.

If you are a first-time Drag King, welcome to Kings of Joy, where we celebrate the artistry, creativity, and empowerment of Drag King culture. As The King Coach, I want you to know that your gender or who you sleep with doesn't matter to me. What matters is that you're ready to lean into your masculine and embrace your Drag King persona.

Through your persona, you'll experience the joy of expressing your authentic self and challenging societal norms. The Kings of Joy community is here to support you on this transformative journey, providing a safe space for self-discovery and empowerment.

So, are you ready to step into the spotlight and create a masculine persona larger than your everyday self? Join us at Kings of Joy, and let's reign with joy together!


Danica Lani

The King Coach

Kings of Joy

P.S. If you wanna be a Drag King, join the waiting list here to join the Kings of Joy

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