Strike a Pose, King: Why Every Drag King Needs a Photoshoot (and How to Make It Count)

So, you've completed Kings of Joy Gold Stars, maybe you’ve even been an All-Star, and your Drag King persona is beginning to take shape. You're feeling the creative spark flicker—maybe even burn—and you're toying with ideas for your first solo routine or stepping onto new stages beyond Kings of Joy. But before the world sees your King live on stage... what about seeing them in frame?

Photoshoots are more than just a bit of glam or something to post. They are a powerful way to see yourself—to embody your Drag King persona, experiment with your look, and start showing up in the world as the artist you already are.

Let’s talk about why photoshoots matter, how to make them work for you (not overwhelm you), and how to prepare like the King you are becoming.

Why Photoshoots Matter for Drag Kings

1. Embody Your Persona
   You’ve created your Drag King name, maybe chosen an archetype, and are working on your look. A photoshoot gives you the space to step into your persona and try them on fully. When the camera clicks, something shifts—it’s like your King arrives.
2. Build Your Confidence
   Seeing a strong photo of yourself in full Drag King expression? Instant boost. A reminder that yes, you can take up space and be seen. That your masculinity, your performance, and your creativity are valid and powerful.
3. Create Visual Assets for Gigs or Social Media
   If you're thinking about performing solo or promoting your work, you'll need promo photos. They don’t have to be perfect—but they do need to feel like you. Whether it's a bio pic for a gig or a post about your next show, these visuals help you grow your presence as a performer.

Before the Shoot: How to Prepare Like a King

Choose a Photographer You Can Be Real With
You don’t need to hire a celebrity photographer—just someone you feel safe and comfortable around. Be clear about what you’re going for (moody? camp? high femme/masc contrast?). You can send a few reference images or even share my Pinterest board of masc poses to give them a sense of the vibe.

Plan Your Looks in Advance
Bring 2–3 options that represent your King. Think: what would your persona wear to a red carpet, on a casual street, or in a moment of vulnerability? This gives you variety while staying in your lane.

Pack These Essentials:

• Drag King makeup (including touch-up gear)
• Binding gear if needed
• Hair gel or grooming tools for facial hair
• Costume options + accessories
• A towel or wipes (photoshoots can get sweaty!)
• Water + snacks (it’s a workout!)

Practice Your Poses
Spend 10 minutes in front of a mirror, or scroll through my Masc Poses Pinterest board and try them out. Remember, masc posing is often about grounded weight, clear lines, and confident stillness.

Pro Tip: Out of 100+ photos, only 3–5 might be true winners. That’s normal. Trust the process.

During the Shoot: Stay Present, Stay Playful

Photoshoots can feel intense—but they’re also an opportunity for play. Let your King persona lead. Try movement shots, explore facial expressions, and communicate with your photographer if you’re feeling unsure. You don’t need to get it perfect. You just need to show up.

After the Shoot: What Comes Next

Once you’ve got your shots, pick a handful that really speak to your persona. Use them for your social profiles, gig posters, your Kings of Joy bio, or even start building a simple website if you’re heading that way.

If you’re feeling brave, write a short caption or story to go with one image. What does this photo say about your King? Who are they becoming?

You’re Not Alone, King

Photoshoots are part of the artistic journey—and they don’t have to be a solo mission. Inside Crown Your King, we cover everything from crafting your persona to confidently showing up online and in the world.

Or maybe for now, your next step is to imagine your King in front of the lens. What do they wear? How do they stand? How do they want to be seen?

Wherever you are on the path—you’re doing great.

Keep going, King.

Xx Danica Lani, 

The King Coach

P.S. Feel free to bookmark this post—so when the timing’s right, it’s here waiting for you.

About Danica Lani, The King Coach

Hey you 👋 I’m Danica Lani—also known as The King Coach. I’ve mentored 140+ first-time Drag Kings since 2020, and I’m here to say: if you’re feeling the pull to explore gender through performance, you’re not alone—and you’re not too late.

Whether you’re new to this world or quietly dreaming of stepping into your masculine side on stage, there’s space for you here.

✨ Ready to name your King? Download Step Into Your King—a free guide to choosing your Drag King name.

💫 Want to see what’s possible? Explore Kings of Joy and discover the queer community bringing masculine expression to life with joy, power, and heart.

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