How Toby Found Community and Became a Drag King Wizard

Season #1

In this episode of The Kings of Joy Show, I’m joined by Toby aka Martin Van Tasmal, a Drag King, illustrator, and deeply creative soul whose journey into Kings of Joy began with searching for queer community in a new city.

What unfolds in this conversation is a story about more than getting on stage. It is about finding people who speak the same language of gender exploration, joy, and self-expression, then discovering what becomes possible from there. We also go behind the scenes of the Kings of Joy merchandise artwork Toby created, exploring how queer identity, transformation, iconography, and community values were translated into visual form.

In This Episode

  • How Toby found Queers of Joy and Kings of Joy after moving to Sydney
  • What it meant to meet other gender fluid and trans masc people
  • The moment Toby saw Kings of Joy perform and signed up straight away
  • Creating Martin Van Tasmal as a wizard, princely Drag King persona
  • Bringing fantasy and niche artistry into the Kings of Joy space Toby’s work as an illustrator and storyboard artist
  • The creative process behind the Kings of Joy merchandise design
  • How joy, gender affirmation, and inclusivity were turned into artwork

Watch the Episode

Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/FF_Wbioeq9A

Notable Quotes

“I hadn’t found my community yet.” Toby aka Martin Van Tasmal

“We just want to dress up like boys and have a good time.” Toby aka Martin Van Tasmal

“I want to be a wizard.” Toby aka Martin Van Tasmal

“It was really lovely being part of this community.” Toby aka Martin Van Tasmal

“I really loved seeing you come alive on stage and shine.” Danica Lani, The King Coach

“The world is a better place because you’re in it and because of your art.” Danica Lani, The King Coach

Start Your Own Drag King Journey If you’re feeling the pull to explore Drag Kinging yourself, begin here: https://www.danicalani.com/dragkingname

Kings of Joy is a global Drag King community helping LGBTQIA+ people break free from constraints around gender, sexuality and self-expression.